I found a brand new small community server that is going for that Hermit style vibe. It is pure vanilla survival on 1.21.11 and it is adults only 18+
People are already building and the server is doing well. They really want more builders to help grow a big city at spawn and make the area look awesome
The community sounds super friendly and it is a whitelist server so you have to apply first
Hermit Style Vanilla City Builders Wanted

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPHaven SMP Chill 18+ Semi Vanilla
Community Collaborationcreative building focusOrganic storytellingrelaxed grind paceSemi-vanilla survival
Haven SMP is a chill semi vanilla survival server that feels inspired by Hermitcraft. It is player driven so people build and make stuff together over a long time.
It is an 18 plus community with friendly respectful players. There is no forced lore and no pressure to do PvP so you can just relax and play.
The world is the kind that grows slowly with builds and stories that happen naturally. The server is on version 1.21.11.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRosedalean 18+ Enhanced Vanilla SMP
casual friendly survivalcommunity-driven gameplayhermit style survivallong-term worldproximity voice chat
Rosedalean SMP is a Java 1.21.10 survival server made for people who want a relaxed but social place. The community is meant to be active and mature and it is 18+ with a short application so things stay respectful and griefing stays low.
It is inspired by Hermitcraft with an enhanced vanilla world and lots of room to build and explore for the long term. Players can team up for projects join events form factions or just hang out and play survival together.
You do not need mods to join since it uses add ons only. It also has simple voice chat Terralith biomes a ticket system a BlueMap view events and custom armour trims. They also want players to suggest new ideas.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPLounge SMP Chill No Reset Survival

I found a chill long term SMP that is meant for people who want to play at their own pace and just build and survive.
They say the world has no resets so you can stick around and keep your progress. The community is supposed to be active and relaxed with no griefers and no drama.
There is a simple economy plus voice chat. PvP is optional since there is a toggle. It also has a Bedrock port for people who want to join that way.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
