I found a realistic medieval style towny server where a group of friends just started their own town.
They are trying to recreate Bantry from County Cork in Ireland and they want more people who like medieval stuff to come build with them.
It sounds like a chill group project where you join in and help the town grow over time.
Build a Medieval Towny Village
Creative Town PlanningHistoric inspired buildslaid-back communityplayer-made townstown management gameplay
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Minecraft Realm and Gaming Hangout
This is a chill gaming community that also has a Minecraft realm. People mostly hang out and play together and it feels relaxed.
They also do movie nights and group gaming sessions. It sounds like a small friendly place where you can join in and have fun without any pressure.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRavencraft 18+ Semi Vanilla Survival SMP
Ravencraft is a semi vanilla survival multiplayer server with a chill community that is mostly adults. People like to build explore experiment and make stuff together. The staff team has been together for years and they keep things friendly.
The server plays on hard difficulty so it can feel intense. There is a community storage where you can grab a bed because you will probably need it. Nights move faster when more players sleep and fire spread is on so you have to be careful.
The map grows over time with periodic world border expansions. There is an expanding road network in the Overworld and a Nether tunnel system to help people travel. There is BlueMap and the server chat is linked with Discord.
It is LGBTQI+ friendly and it is for players who are 18 and over. No hacks or cheats are allowed and you are expected to be respectful. It is a greylist server so you can join and look around then do a quick application to get set up.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP