So I found this server called ChillGrindSMP and it is just a simple Java survival world that feels really relaxed.
It runs on version 1.20.10 and it uses ViaVersion so people on a bunch of different Java versions can still join together. That makes it easier if you do not like updating all the time.
The main thing here is no griefing. People are not allowed to wreck your builds or steal your stuff so you can actually spend time building and grinding without worrying about it getting ruined.
There is a gravestone plugin too. When you die your items go into a grave so you do not just lose everything. It makes the server feel less stressful because one mistake does not destroy your whole progress.
They also have a simple player economy. It is not super complex and it is meant to be easy for everyone to use. It fits the chill style of the server.
There is no pay to win stuff at all. No crates and no weird monetization tricks. Everyone plays on the same level which is nice if you are tired of servers that sell power.
The community is small and pretty chill and it feels welcoming if you just want a place to relax grind and build with other players.
ChillGrindSMP – No P2W Survival

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSea Pickle Vanilla Survival

Sea Pickle is a simple vanilla survival server with a small group of people.
The server is new so the world still feels fresh. You can join and build or explore without feeling super behind.
The community is small so it is easier to get to know everyone and not get lost in chat.
If you just want basic Minecraft survival with other players and not a ton of extra stuff this server fits that pretty well.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCasual Minecraft 1.21 Survival SMP

This server is a really simple survival SMP that feels like old school Minecraft. It is focused on a chill community and just playing the game without a ton of crazy addons. You just join explore mine and build with other people.
The server is all about a pure survival experience so you get that classic feeling of starting from nothing and working your way up. There are no weird gimmicks and the whole point is to hang out and have fun together.
They have optional proximity chat so if you want you can talk to players who are close to you in game. It makes stuff like exploring or building with others feel more real.
There is also a cool pixel art project in game at a place called slash place. It is like a big canvas where everyone can place one wool block every 10 seconds. It is slow on purpose and you have to work together to make huge pictures.
Both Java and Bedrock can join so more friends can play together. The whole vibe is relaxed and friendly and it feels like the kind of SMP where you can actually stay for a long time.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPMalgazar Vanilla Java SMP Community

This is a mostly vanilla Java Minecraft server with a small set of quality of life plugins. It stays on the latest Java version so players can enjoy new updates together.
The community feels really friendly and active. People are having a good time playing and building together. The staff is strict about keeping things clean so griefing almost never happens.
The server is meant to last a long time and be solid and stable. It is looking for nice and positive players who want to join and be part of the group. If you want a chill survival world with good people and strong moderation this server fits that style.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPastlands SMP Create Automation And Colonies

The Pastlands is a modded SMP that feels like a real world and not a short hype server. It uses a custom CurseForge modpack that gets updated every two weeks so things stay fresh but your progress still matters.
The server is all about Create automation MineColonies magic and big exploration. There are lots of structure and worldgen mods so the world feels huge and full of stuff to find. It is really good for players who like building giant bases running colonies messing with magic or just roaming around.
The community is a big deal here. The players are active and friendly and the staff actually play the game and help instead of being power crazy. The server uses community polls and feedback and they even add new mods that players suggest after testing.
The world is meant to last so there are no random wipes. There are claims and protection plus chunk loading and the server is self hosted with strong hardware so it runs smooth with good TPS. The modpack and configs are optimized and bugs get fixed fast with clear changelogs.
If you want a long term modded SMP with automation colonies magic and people who like working together this server is made for that.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOutcrafted SMP Season 3 Semi Vanilla

Outcrafted SMP is starting season 3 and it is a semi vanilla world. It is made for players who want survival that feels close to normal Minecraft but still has some extra cool stuff.
There is Simple Voice Chat so talking with other players feels natural. There are also dungeons and taverns that add custom structures so exploring the world feels fresh and not boring. The server also has some custom maces to add a twist to combat this season.
They want around 50 to 100 active players. It is meant for people who are 16 or older so the community feels more mature. There is no big application. You just join follow the rules and play.
If you like semi vanilla survival and want a new season to grind from day one this server looks pretty fun.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCheesyCraft Redux Semi Vanilla Survival

This server is called CheesyCraft Redux and it is a semi vanilla survival world. It runs on version 1.21.11 so it is pretty up to date.
The owner and staff make their own custom features just for this server. The code is done by the team and a lot of the textures are made by the community so it still feels like normal Minecraft but with a unique look.
They keep everything simple and focus on quality over quantity. There are some quality of life commands and features but they do not spam you with random crates or resold cosmetics or tons of confusing systems.
They use plugins like GriefPrevention so your builds are safe and CoreProtect to watch for problems. There is also Simple Voice Chat and a map plugin called squaremap.
The staff and builders are people like GentlemanCheesy and Power and a few others who help build and program. The server wants players who enjoy survival and want to try out their custom stuff in a relaxed way.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Fabric 1.20.4 Vanilla Plus

This is a modded Minecraft server that feels like vanilla but with more stuff to explore. It runs on 1.20.4 fabric and it keeps the game pretty balanced.
The server adds new structures and new biomes and even new dimensions to check out. There is nothing super overpowered so it still feels fair and normal to play.
Keep inventory is turned on so it is more chill and you do not lose all your gear when you die. It is meant for relaxed gameplay and not super sweaty tryhard stuff.
The owner is trying to grow a more active and friendly community so new players are welcome. If you want a calm place to explore build and hang out this server is made for that.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOathwood SMP Long Term Towny Survival

Oathwood SMP is a survival server with towny and an economy. It feels like a place where people want to build a long term world and not just rush through everything.
Players can make towns and claim land so their builds are safe. There are player run shops using shopkeepers and it makes trading feel like a real little marketplace.
Builds are protected with ChestLock so you can relax a bit more while you work on your base or town.
The server is made for both Java and Bedrock players so more friends can join in the same world. It has balanced long term survival gameplay and aims for a real community vibe instead of just quick minigames.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPKanzo MC Crossplay Survival

Kanzo MC is a simple survival server where people just chill and play together. It has a relaxed vibe so you can take your time and build stuff or farm or explore without feeling rushed.
The server is Java and Bedrock together and it even supports cracked Minecraft so you can still join if you do not have a premium account. There is a home and chest protection system so your gear and builds stay safe.
Players can make shops and trade with each other. There are towns jobs and an economy so you can earn money and buy what you need instead of grinding alone.
It runs on version 1.21.10 for both Java and Bedrock. Everyone is welcome and the whole place feels like a small friendly survival world where people just want to have fun and hang out.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
