I found a small modded Java survival server on 1.16.5 that is looking for a few more people.
It feels super relaxed and it is mostly about exploring and building cool stuff. People also mess around with magic and tech mods and just enjoy a long term world.
It is PvE and not sweaty or competitive. They want chill friendly players who will actually play and be part of the world.
Chill Modded SMP Magic And Tech
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Twix SMP is a Java SMP that is focused on vanilla survival with a few small quality of life tweaks that help building feel better and still keep the real survival vibe.
The server is based in the UK but people from any time zone can join and fit in. It is made for players who want long term friends and a place to build and chill.
There is an active event team that runs events often. There is also a cozy movie night every Sunday plus other activities.
The community uses Simple Voice Chat so talking in game feels more normal and fun. There is also an active Discord with lots of voice calls and chatting.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP