I found a Bedrock Survival Realm that is trying to keep that vanilla feeling. It has some extra stuff like an essential add on and player shops.
They started a new season about two weeks ago so it still feels fresh and like everyone is building things up.
The Discord community is big with over 1,000 members and it keeps growing. They also talk about daily updates and giveaways plus lots of time to just play and chill.
Fresh Season Bedrock Survival Realm
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I found a Minecraft 1.20.1 Forge modded server that runs with a mod setup you grab through CurseForge.
They have a Discord where you can get the mods and also find the server info so you can join once you are set up.
If you want modded Minecraft and do not mind importing a pack this one is made for that.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP