I found a small tight knit Minecraft SMP that is made for chill players who just want to build and vibe.
It is lightly modded so it still feels like vanilla. You can use furniture mods for cozy builds and there are extra structures to explore plus some quality of life stuff.
The community is 18+ and the server has anti grief tools and a claim system so your builds stay safe. PvP only happens if both players agree so it stays peaceful and low drama.
AetheriaSMP is a plain vanilla Minecraft server with a friendly community that keeps growing. It has an active mod team so if something goes wrong there are people around to help.
This server is big on keeping your stuff safe. If someone steals your items or messes up your base the staff can use Core Protect to find who did it and roll back the damage fast.
PVP is only allowed if both players agree to it. If you get killed for no reason the team can help get your items back and punish the player who started it.
The test server is launching soon and they are open to new players.