Headrest SMP is a Paper server on 1.20.10 and Season 2 starts in 2 days. It has a few quality of life plugins plus Terralith and some extra structure plugins so exploring feels fresh.
The server is roleplay focused and the community tries to be chill so people can make friends and build. There are factions and wars too and you can even betray people if that is your kind of story.
Spawn has a safe zone where players can build shops and just talk. There is simple voice chat using the Simple VC mod.
PvP is more of a side thing but it is still there. Combat has rules like no elytra during fights and there is combat logging protection plus /sit.
The server runs on a dedicated machine with 20GB RAM and a 5800x3d CPU to help keep lag down.
