SnowFallSMP is a small semi vanilla server where people just want to play Minecraft and make new friends. When I joined it felt calm and kind of cozy because everyone is into different play styles but they still hang out together.
There are builders collectors tech lovers experimenters and explorers so the world has a mix of cool bases and weird projects. The rules are pretty simple. You have to respect other player builds and community areas. No hacking griefing vandalism or stealing. No discrimination bullying or harassment. No pvp unless both players agree first and no advertising.
It is a 16 plus server so people act more mature. There is a short application with a few easy questions like your IGN and if you agree to the rules. After you fill that out you can join and start playing. Sometimes they also run events when they can so there is always something to watch for.

