I found a modded Minecraft server called The Old Age and it is made to be friendly even if you are new and still learning
It has Create for building cool machines and it also has Create Numismaticks so there is a coin style money thing
There is Deeper and Darker for more spooky exploring plus Creeper Overhaul to change up creepers and Enderite for upgrades
It also has voice chat so you can talk to people while you play
