I found a quiet survival server that has a long term world and it does not reset. That means old bases and old battles stay on the map and it feels like real history.
It is semi anarchy so pvp raiding and griefing are allowed. There are no land claims and there are no kits. It also says no pay to win.
There are some quality of life commands like /home and /tpa. Vote stuff is optional and it is just cosmetics.
It supports Java and Bedrock and it runs on version 1.21.11. The vibe is low pop and chill but when two allies decide to duel it can still get intense.

