I found SimpleHardcore and it is all about hardcore style survival where every choice matters. It is made for people who want a real challenge and want to see how long they can stay alive.
The gameplay is mostly vanilla and it feels clean. There are not a bunch of extras and it does not rely on overpowered plugins. It is focused on survival and long term progression.
The community is survival focused so it is a good place if you like tough Minecraft and you want pure gameplay.
Pure Hardcore Survival No OP Extras
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This is a modded SMP called AVP SMP and it is all about long term survival and big builds in a sci fi style world. The theme is AVP so it feels like aliens and crazy tech instead of a normal Minecraft server.
The server uses Create and Immersive Engineering so people can build working factories power systems and big bases. Players can team up on huge shared projects and build up infrastructure together. There is also space exploration and alien threats so it feels more risky than normal survival.
PvP is turned on but no one is forced to fight all the time. The world is meant to last a long time and there are no planned resets right now. The server is always online and runs 24 7.
It is application based so you have to apply to join. This helps keep the community solid and focused on people who actually want to stay and build. The server is on version 1.21.1 and it has just started so it is still very early and there is lots of room for new players and new projects.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP