I found GamerHub Towny and it feels like a chill Towny SMP that started out as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow bigger.
Griefing and stealing are not allowed and the world never resets so your builds can stay for the long run. The community seems welcoming and ready to help new players and a lot of players are in the Oceania region.
The server leans mostly player economy with ranks you can get using in game money. It also has Dynmap player warps and player shops plus a sell only server shop. You can do jobs and use MCMMO and there is a player built market too.
They say they get around 25 daily active players and it gets most active when the owner streams on twitch with 8 or more online sometimes. The listed version is 1.21.10 or similar.
Chill No Reset Towny SMP
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP2 Year Bedrock Realm Survival SMP
I found a Bedrock Realm that has been running for over 2 years and it is a survival SMP style world. It keeps the vanilla survival feel but it also adds some extra stuff to make it more fun.
There is an economy with shops so players can trade and set up their own things. It also has a TPA system plus ranks and auctions so you can move around easier and mess with the market.
The vibe is chill and friendly and it is about making memories and building with other people. Their Discord is really active with over 1,000 members so it feels like there are always new people around.
They also do daily updates and giveaways and they want you to meet new friends and just have fun.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP