I found a Java SMP that is adults only and it is in season 2 right now. It is still early to mid game so you are not super behind.
It is vanilla survival and it is meant to be long term with seasons. They keep the mods minimal and it is mostly just quality of life stuff.
The End is closed for now so people are not rushing everything. To join you do a short application then a quick Discord voice chat vibe check.
Adults Only Java SMP Fresh Season
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPixel Springs Cozy Modded SMP 1.20.1
Pixel Springs is a cozy modded SMP that feels like a long term home. The world is meant to last so players can settle down and keep their builds without constant resets.
The server is all about building collecting and relaxing survival. There are tons of builder friendly mods and a big focus on decorating. There are also many farming mods and you can earn in game currency for completing meals. Collectors can follow a custom FTB Quests system to chase items and rewards.
If you like magic there are mods like Botania Hexerei Mystical Agriculture and Ars Noveau. If you like animals there are extra creatures and pets from several mods so you can find a cute companion.
Pixel Springs has in game currency daily rewards and a shopping district where players can make their own shops or markets. There is a separate resource world that resets sometimes so the main world can stay nice while people still gather materials.
The community is small friendly and growing. The server started around three months ago so you can still join pretty early. The admin team is active and keeps backups so the world stays safe and they keep working to improve the server.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP