Lavender SMP is a whitelist server for adults and it is lgbtq friendly. It just restarted so everyone is starting fresh together.
It is Java only on version 1.21.11 and it is set to hard mode. The server has some quality of life stuff plus Simple Voice Chat so people can talk while they play.
The community is close knit and they like building and just hanging out. If you see people in voice you can jump in and chat too.
There are extra tweaks like AFK Display anti enderman grief more mob heads player head drops mini blocks double shulker shells and DiscordSRV.
