I found a Fabric 1.19.2 SMP that is trying to stay small and friendly. It keeps the mod list short so it still feels close to vanilla but with some fun extras.
It has Origins plus a few quality mods like Chisel Farmers Delight and a voice chat mod. The server does not use claims and it runs on a whitelist to help keep things in order.
It sounds like a chill place for people who want modded survival without a huge pack and with a community vibe.
Origins SMP With Minimal Mods
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPAdults Only SMP With Big Server Features
Daily login rewardsfriendly staff teamLore driven contentprotected building claimsTech progression gameplay
Adults Night Out is an 18 plus SMP made for people who want Minecraft without the usual public server chaos. It feels chill and mature and it is also a place to just hang out and talk even if you are doing other stuff.
The server is run by a serious team that keeps adding updates and new features from community suggestions. It tries to have that big server feel while still being for adults.
Your builds are protected with CoreProtect and a simple custom land claiming plugin so grief and theft are not a big worry. You also get daily rewards just for showing up.
It has Slimefun for modpack style machines and gadgets plus lore. It also has mcMMO so you can level skills like mining swords and fishing for perks and flex.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP