I found a lightly modded SMP that tries to feel like normal Minecraft but with some extra stuff that actually matters.
It has Lifesteal so fights can change your hearts and it also uses the Origins mod so you can pick a race with its own abilities. There is also custom content like a Halberd weapon so combat has more choices without getting too complicated.
People here like PvP and meeting other players but it still sounds friendly for builders and chill players too.
There is a big spawn safety rule. No PvP within 128 blocks of spawn and no griefing at spawn. You also cannot combat log or run into spawn to dodge a fight. Shops are protected from griefing anywhere. The world border grows as more people join and every Saturday it opens up to full size for gathering resources.
Vanilla Feel SMP With Origins Lifesteal

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFresh Start Vanilla SMP Season 2

I found a vanilla SMP that is doing a real fresh start and everyone begins together for Season 2 on March 14 at 9AM AEST which is Friday evening in the USA
The first week is a tight 1000 by 1000 border and the Nether is closed so it stays really early game and focused. In week 2 the border expands and the Nether opens. The End unlocks two weeks after the Nether
PvP only happens if both people agree. Griefing and stealing are not allowed so it feels safer to build and trust people
Spawn is a flat plains area with rivers around it and there are villages nearby. Last season on day 1 it hit over 20 players and there is a short clip from Season 1 you can check out. The whitelist is open now and you apply through their Discord
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFresh Start Vanilla SMP Season 2

This is a fresh start survival multiplayer server where everyone begins at the same time for season 2 on March 14 at 9AM AEST.
The first week has a 1000 by 1000 world border and the Nether is closed. In week two the border expands and the Nether opens. The End unlocks two weeks after the Nether.
PvP is only allowed if both players agree. Griefing and stealing are not allowed so it is more chill and trust based.
Spawn is a flat plains area with rivers around it and villages nearby. Last season hit over 20 players on day 1 and there is a short clip from season 1 too. The whitelist is open right now and you apply in their Discord.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFresh Start Vanilla SMP Season 2

This is a fresh start vanilla SMP that kicks off with everyone joining at the same time for Season 2 on March 14 at 9AM AEST. It is meant to feel like normal Minecraft but with light management tools keeping things running smooth.
The early game is paced so it does not get rushed. Week 1 has a 1000 by 1000 world border and the Nether is closed. In Week 2 the border expands and the Nether opens. The End unlocks two weeks after the Nether opens.
PvP is only allowed if both players agree. Griefing and stealing are not allowed. Spawn is a flat plains area with rivers around it and villages nearby. Last season the first day hit over 20 players and applications are open now.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPMineTrade Border SMP Survival Economy Server

MineTrade is a unique Minecraft survival server built around a border expansion challenge. Players begin with a single regular chunk as their starting area. By earning in game money, you can expand your chunk border and gradually grow your territory. The goal is to make as much money as possible while managing and enlarging your land. This border based SMP offers a different twist on classic survival gameplay and provides a fun challenge for players who enjoy progression and strategy. Join MineTrade to experience this first of its kind Minecraft Border SMP and test how far you can expand your borders.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
