MistyMC is a long term survival multiplayer world that stays 100 percent vanilla. It started a few months ago and the whole point is no resets so your builds can last.
It supports both Java and Bedrock players on the most recent versions so you can bring friends on either platform.
The community is big and tight on Discord and it sounds like people are here to chill make new friends and even form nations together. There is also a Bluemap style live map so you can look around the world outside the game.
