Misty SMP is a long term survival server that is fully vanilla and says it has no resets. It is made for people who want a steady world where your builds and progress stick around.
It also lets Java and Bedrock players play together so your friends can join from different devices. Console players can join too by adding the server account as a friend.
There is a Discord for the community and it sounds like they want it to keep growing so you can meet new people. They also have a Bluemap so you can check out the world online.
