I found a simple white listed vanilla server that runs on the latest Bedrock version. There are no mods and no fancy spawn so it feels like normal Minecraft.
The vibe is friendly and it is meant for people who just want to play together and chill. To get in you do a quick application through their Discord.
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GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP2 Year Bedrock Realm Survival SMP
I found a Bedrock Realm that has been running for over 2 years and it is a survival SMP style world. It keeps the vanilla survival feel but it also adds some extra stuff to make it more fun.
There is an economy with shops so players can trade and set up their own things. It also has a TPA system plus ranks and auctions so you can move around easier and mess with the market.
The vibe is chill and friendly and it is about making memories and building with other people. Their Discord is really active with over 1,000 members so it feels like there are always new people around.
They also do daily updates and giveaways and they want you to meet new friends and just have fun.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPForge Gaming Bedrock Realm Community
Forge Gaming is a long running Discord community that has been around since 2016 and it stays active and welcoming.
They host one Minecraft Bedrock Realm that is long term survival and meant for people who want to play and stick around.
The vibe is relaxed and not super competitive. People hang out and talk while they play and they help each other out.
There are members from places like the US and UK and EU and NZ so it feels like someone is around a lot. Joining uses an application system to help keep things friendly and drama free.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP