Farmlands SMP is a cozy survival server with a small community feel and it is whitelisted for 18 plus players. It is made for people who like to take their time and not feel rushed.
The main world is meant to last so long term bases farms and big projects actually matter. You can settle in and keep building without worrying your home area will get ruined.
There is also a separate resource world that resets regularly so gathering blocks does not mess up the main world. The server is close to vanilla with some quality of life features plus a custom advancement pack for extra challenges.
The rules are strict about no griefing no stealing and no toxicity. The economy is player driven where you can trade or run a shop and there are no ranks and no pay to win stuff.

