I found a casual Bedrock Realm that sticks close to vanilla with only a few small changes that make the base game feel better.
It has quests you can do for rewards so progression feels more fun and less grindy.
The big focus is player driven lore and events where everyone shows up and does stuff together.
You can start your own city state and keep things peaceful or build it up and even start wars. It has room for builders and also for PVP so both kinds of players can shine.
There are a few rules to keep things balanced so people still have freedom but it stays fun for everyone.
Banana Split Casual Bedrock Realm Wars

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This is a casual Bedrock realm that feels really chill but also busy. People here like to build and fight and make up their own stories.
The realm runs weekly build competitions so everyone has a reason to be creative. Players can also create city states and work on them over time. Some people stay peaceful and just build cool stuff. Others use their cities to start wars with each other.
The server tries to stay close to vanilla Minecraft. There are only a few changes to make normal features feel a bit better. Both pvp and building are important here so different play styles can still have fun.
There are some rules but they are not super strict. They exist to keep a balance between freedom and fun so people can mess around without ruining it for everyone else.
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