I found a server that runs modpacks and then switches to a new pack every few months. People vote on the next pack so it feels like the community picks what happens next.
There is pvp with rules that try to keep it fair. If you do not want to fight you can avoid pvp and still have fun.
They also do not allow player raids so your builds can stay safe. Builders are welcome and it sounds like they really like when people make the world look nice.
A new pack is about to start since Soulrend won the pack vote.
Rotating Modpacks PvP With Fair Rules

DeadMans Land Classic Factions Kill Or Be Killed

DeadMans Land Classic Factions Kill Or Be Killed

MineStrike KitPvP And SMP PvP

Astral Swords Vanilla Plus PvP

DeadMan’s Land Classic Factions PvP

PharoGames Battle Royale

Pharogames
Welcome to PharoGames – The Best Hunger Games Ever!
Step into PharoGames, the most epic and tough Hunger Games server, made by Pharolen!
Features That Make PharoGames Awesome:
– Cool Maps – Awesome battlegrounds for epic fights and smart gameplay.
– Cool Weapons – Strong gear that can change the battle.
– Fast Fights – Smooth moves, fair battles, and lots of excitement.
– Talk Required – Chat, plan, and trick in real-time!
– Hang with Pharolen – Play with top players in special events!JOIN THE FIGHT TODAY!
Survive, conquer, win. Will you be the champ, or will you lose?
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