Hauntsxz SMP is a semi vanilla survival server with a friendly community and staff. It is made to feel active and not boring with stuff like events and invite rewards.
It supports both Java and Bedrock so more people can play together. There is also cross platform chat and DiscordSRV so you can keep up with what is going on.
At spawn there is a guidebook to help you start. PvP has a toggle so you can choose when you want to fight. There are graves to help you get your items back and there are warps to move around.
The server has a no griefing policy and if something happens you can open a ticket for help.
