I found Headrest SMP and it is a Paper server that is starting Season 2 today. It runs on 1.20.10 and it has a bunch of quality of life stuff like Terralith and other structure plugins.
The vibe is roleplay with lore and factions. People build together and also fight other groups when drama starts. PvP is there but it is more like a side thing and not the whole point.
There is a safe zone at spawn where players can build shops and hang out. They also use a simple voice chat mod so talking feels more real.
They have plugins for stuff like no elytra during combat and combatlog and a sit command. The server also says it has a dedicated machine with 20GB of ram and a 5800x3d CPU to help keep lag down.
Headrest SMP Season 2 Lore Wars
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This is a modded Tekkit 2 server that is all about faction warfare and tech raids. Players build up their own empires and claim land so they can protect their bases and then go after other factions.
The server uses advanced explosives that are carefully balanced so raids feel strong but not totally broken. You can use high tech weapons and bombs to attack enemy bases and also come up with smart ways to hide and defend your own base.
PvP is a big focus and it is set up to be fair and strategic. There is anti combat logging and anti hack protection so fights feel more legit and not full of cheaters.
The community feels friendly with an active staff team that helps players and keeps the server moderated. The server is not pay to win so everyone plays on even ground. There are custom mod patches to help the game run smoother and custom plugins to improve the gameplay even more.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP