I found AeternalCiv and it is a geopolitical civilization building server where you try to forge your own destiny. You can play as a citizen or lead as a king or queen or just live as a hermit if that is your thing.
It has base security stuff like reinforcement with Citadel and snitch tracking with Snitchmod so borders and crimes actually matter. It also mixes in progression and extra gameplay like Slimefun Movecraft Origins Brewery ValhallaMMO Seasons Levelled Mobs RPG mechanics and custom recipes.
The server started as a small friend group and now they want more people to build the world with. It is still in active development so expect changes and new mechanics over time.
Geopolitical Civ Survival With Big Roles
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Posalon is a Minecraft worldbuilding project where the whole goal is to make history together. When you play here what you do can actually become part of the world lore and it gets saved in their wiki. It feels more like a living story than a normal server.
You can get into politics and help run a nation or even try to start your own. There is a movecraft plugin so you can design planes tanks and ships and then use them in real battles against other players. There is also a breweryx plugin so you can just be a chill bartender if that is your thing.
You can also create and spread your own religion or just build up your own identity in this world. The server is not about one person controlling everything. The community builds the story together and everyone can add a chapter.
If you want a place where your choices matter and you like lore and roleplay this server is all about that.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP