I found a small Minecraft Java server that is modded on 1.20.1 using Fabric. It is a chill place with about 5 to 6 regular players.
They made their own mod list with extra monsters and weapons and armor and furniture plus RPG stuff and dungeons. The point is to explore a lot and keep finding new things to do.
People build cozy bases and sometimes shared towns with paths. It is meant to feel like a lived in world where everyone helps out and goes on random adventures.
They use proximity voice chat so talking feels natural while you build or when you run into someone. The server is resetting soon so everyone starts fresh at the same time.
It is not sweaty and not focused on PvP. It is more about relaxed cooperative survival and playing at your own pace.
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GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCHILL CREATE MOD SMP GEARSHIFT CREW

This is a chill SMP for people who want to play with the Create mod and hang out with a relaxed community.
They are looking for more players so it feels like a good place if you just want to join in and vibe with others.
The whole thing sounds casual and community based and not super intense.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPGerman Vanilla Survival With Chill QoL

I found a small server for German players that is mostly vanilla and is about having fun and playing Minecraft together.
It has some simple QoL commands like a home command and an enderchest command so getting around and managing stuff feels easier.
The server is whitelist only so you have to get approved before you can join.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
