I found Fools Ambrosia and it is a small modded server that is really big on story. The world is about mortals and immortals and how worship made gods survive. Wars happened and new gods rose up and almost everything fell apart except for four gods who made something new which is you.
This server goes roleplay first and gameplay second. They do scheduled events for different timezones and some are chill and some are heavy on lore. Events can be made by players or by admins and they really want everyone to get a chance to matter in the story.
It runs a lightweight Neoforge modpack with around 160 mods and it is meant to work on weak computers too. They also talk about a custom built server backend and an admin team that stays active and keeps improving things. The mod list includes Origins with 16 choices and Biomancy 2 for the weird flesh stuff.
