I found a semi vanilla survival SMP that is all about community and building without getting griefed.
The server has a diamond based economy so players trade with diamonds and run their own shops. There is also a shops menu so you can browse stores fast or make your own.
You can protect your land with claiming using golden shovels. It also supports Java and Bedrock crossplay so more friends can join.
There is a live world map you can check in a browser and separate resource worlds so the main world stays nice. They also do weekly events and you can get ranks and vote rewards just by playing. It is true survival with PvE focus and no keep inventory.






