This server is called RefinedVanilla and it is a true vanilla anarchy world. There are basically no rules except you cannot use hacked clients. You can build bases destroy stuff explore far away and try weird experiments. It tries to stay exactly how Mojang made Minecraft so it feels like singleplayer but with other people.
The owner uses Fabric so the game keeps real vanilla mechanics. Redstone works like it should. TNT chains and piston machines act like singleplayer. Tick timings stay the same so technical players can make farms and machines without everything breaking.
The performance is tuned a lot. The server changes simulation distance mobcaps and render distance while people are online. This keeps it running smooth even when more players join.
There are a few gameplay notes. The nether roof is allowed so you can travel super fast. Chunk trailing is patched. Portal chunkloaders will work but they stop when no player is close in either dimension.
If you want a server that feels like real vanilla Minecraft with almost total freedom this one is pretty close.
RefinedVanilla True Anarchy Survival
Cozy No PvP Survival That Never Wipes
I found a calm survival server that is all about cozy vibes and taking your time. It is made for people who just want to build and chill without getting bothered.
There is no PvP so you do not have to worry about random fights. The world does not reset so your builds can stay forever and you can keep coming back.
It also says no pay to win and it runs on both Java and Bedrock. It has some vanilla plus tweaks and a friendly community feel.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRise of Kingdoms Bedrock RPG Realms
Rise of Kingdoms is a Bedrock realm that leans hard into RPG roleplay. Players can join a kingdom and be part of a society or they can live outside the system as a bandit or an anarchist type.
The realm uses add ons that are meant to make things easier. It also has an economy system and an RPG system so you can play like you are building up a character.
The community is still really small with less than 10 people and the realm is pretty new. It is an adults only place and you must be over 18 with no exceptions. You also have to join the Discord and stay active. There are voice channels if you do not feel like typing.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPMalgazar SMP Chill No Grief QOL
Malgazar SMP is a chill survival multiplayer server where people are trying to build without everything getting ruined. The community is pretty active and it is mostly friendly even if there is sometimes a bit of toxicity like anywhere.
The server is hosted in the UK and it runs on Purpur. Keep inventory is on and explosions do not destroy blocks so your stuff is safer. There is veinminer and mcMMO so you can level up things like mining and swords.
The rules are strict about no griefing no stealing no scams and no slurs. PVP is only if both players agree and cheating like xray dupes and seed maps are not allowed. Pets and animals are protected too and drama is not welcome.
There is a 15k world border and the outer end islands reset every week. Fishing has boosted loot with super rare chances for big items. There is also a mod that can roll back grief fast and shows who interacted with blocks so problems get handled quick.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSitana Survival SMP Any Age Welcome
I found a survival multiplayer server called Sitana SMP.
It is an SMP and any age is allowed.
It looks like you join through their Discord and then you can play with everyone.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPDbD Style Asymmetrical Horror PvP
Custom ability combatFriends party friendlyKiller tracking playTeam survival focusTense chase gameplay
This server is a Dead by Daylight kind of game in Minecraft and it is built around asymmetrical PvP.
Survivors work together to repair generators and loot chests then try to stay alive long enough to open the escape doors.
The killer hunts everyone down and uses custom abilities to get an advantage. They can break generators and also try to stop survivors from reviving.
It has 2 custom maps and 9 custom killers plus 19 perks that survivors can customize. There is also a custom horror resource pack and a ranked system so you can see how strong you really are. It supports 1.21.10+.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP