This server is called Only Life and it is a hardcore semi anarchy world where you only get one life. If you die your death is permanent and you are banned. It feels really intense because every fight and every cave run actually matters.
The server runs on Minecraft 1.21.1 and uses vanilla gameplay so you get all the newest items and trials but without crazy custom stuff. There are no land claims and griefing and raiding are allowed so bases are never really safe.
Even though it is semi anarchy there is a strict anti cheat so hacks and xray are not allowed. It is supposed to be a fair anarchy style server where players win by skill and not by cheating.
The server also tracks stats like survivor rank and playtime so you can see how long you stay alive compared to other people. The whole vibe is just survive as long as you can and try not to lose your only life.
Only Life Hardcore Semi Anarchy

Chill Whitelisted Vanilla SMP 1.21.3

I found a chill whitelisted vanilla survival server for 1.21.3 with a small community vibe. It stays mostly vanilla and it has a few tiny qol plugins.
The rules are light and the mood is relaxed. You can build explore and just hang out. Griefing builds is not allowed but PvP is fair game.
The world border is set to 10k for now. All ages are welcome and the server is hosted in Germany. New features might get added if the community asks for them.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPTRUE VANILLA Fabric Semi Anarchy SMP

FabricCraft is a survival server that sticks to real vanilla mechanics because it runs on Fabric. It feels like the kind of world where your farms and redstone actually work the way you planned.
It is semi anarchy so you get a lot of freedom with only a few rules. There are no land claims and there are no world resets so the map stays persistent and the story is made by players through alliances trade rivalries and raids.
Hacked clients and mods that give an advantage are not allowed. There is also a simple voice chat mod you can use.
Griefing is banned within 1k of spawn and it is handled by active moderation instead of claims.
There is also a creative world with no plots and no limits on how much space you can use. A lot of players use it to test builds before bringing them into survival.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPZERO RULES ANARCHY SURVIVAL START NOW
bedrock java crossovermodern version supportNo admin interferenceold school versionstoxic free staff
I found Jonarchy and it is a survival anarchy server with no rules vibes. It is free to play and it works on Java and Bedrock and even Eaglercraft too.
People say there are no long player queues and no admin abuse. It also supports a huge range of versions from 1.5.2 up to modern versions so a lot of players can join.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPWhitelisted Vanilla SMP For Mature Players

I found a community based survival server called The Eternal Region. It is whitelisted and it is aimed at mature players who want a calmer place to play.
It stays vanilla first but it also has some quality of life changes. Phantoms are off and endermen cannot grief and you get double shulker shells.
The world border starts small then it grows every day and it is currently 5000 by 5000. It also uses Simple Voice Chat so players can talk while playing.
The server focuses on anti grief protection and respectful standards. It sounds like a place for builders redstone players and explorers who want a long term world to invest in.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPBoonCraft SMP Quests and Land Claim

BoonCraft is a survival SMP server with a small friendly community and players from all over the world. It is mostly PvE and it has a no griefing policy so people can just build and relax.
There is land claim to protect your builds and player warps so you can show off what you made. The server also runs community competitions and challenges and there is usually something new each week.
The economy feels stable and balanced and you can make money in a bunch of ways like player shops jobs quests the auction house voting and selling items. Custom fishing is a big thing too and you can catch lots of fish types and sizes then sell them to the Fisherman at spawn. There are also server wide daily fishing competitions.
If you want PvP you can toggle it and there is a dedicated PvP arena where fights are safe. You keep your inventory you keep your XP and your items do not lose durability.
There is no pay to win and the store is only for cosmetics. You can also unlock free ranks and special perks just by playing.
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