I found this Minecraft server called Malgazar and it is a pretty chill vanilla style world. The server runs mostly vanilla with just a few quality of life plugins so it still feels like normal Minecraft.
There is a small community that feels really tight and people are nice and active. Players seem to enjoy building and surviving together and they want more positive people to join in.
The staff take moderation serious so griefing almost never happens. They watch over the server a lot and they even decided to unban some small time offenders and put them on a watch list so they get a second chance. If someone does bad stuff again they get banned for good.
The world is not tiny either. They recently expanded the Overworld Nether and End borders from about 4.5k to 11k so there is more room to explore and make bases.
If you just want a solid vanilla survival server with a good community and you like being a nice player this server fits that pretty well.
Malgazar Vanilla Java Survival Community

5tarRock Medieval Geopolitics Semi Vanilla

I found a small geopolitics style Minecraft server called 5tarRock and it is semi vanilla on Java.
It has a medieval times vibe and it uses a bunch of in house made plugins to help it feel like that.
The server also has a huge detailed custom map that tries to be realistic like a planets geography.
The owner is redoing the server right now and they want a more active community instead of a big older playerbase.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPBalanced Non OP Prison With PvE Lair

RiotBlockMC is a new Prison server that is still in beta and it is not the kind where you max out fast. The progress is slower and feels more fair so you actually have to work for it.
It has a balanced economy with classic rank progression and custom enchants that are meant to work for long term play. The server is being updated a lot right now and they say there is no pay to win stuff.
There is also a PvE area called the Wardens Lair where you fight mobs and loot dungeons to make money instead of only mining. The mobs scale in difficulty so it can get risky but the rewards are better.
They are testing the economy the mob difficulty and how fast progression should be. Progress made during beta will not be reset. It is Java 1.21+.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPBedrock Factions Realm With Hardcore Twist

I found a Bedrock factions realm that is starting up and looking for players.
It has a few quality of life mods like tree capitator.
The rules and how stuff works will be decided by polls once everyone is in the Discord. There is a mace limit a 3 life hardcore setup and a smaller world border.
You answer a questionnaire and then you get a Discord friend request.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPBeeetCraft Chill Vanilla Plus SMP

BeeetCraft is a small Vanilla plus survival world that just started and it is whitelist only. It is meant for people who want a chill place and want their builds to last.
The gameplay stays close to vanilla with quality of life tweaks and nothing that feels overpowered. Netherite is turned off and the End is not open yet so progress stays more balanced.
Players help decide where the server goes next by voting on features and updates. The vibe is slower and long term with towns that form naturally plus shops and a real player economy.
The server is on a dedicated self hosted machine and the whitelist is there to keep griefing out. Events are planned and they also want to add quests and jobs later.
Right now people have been shaping the center spawn and new players can join early and help build it up.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Fabric Modded World With Voice Chat

This is a chill Minecraft Java server running 1.20.1 on Fabric and it is for 18+ players.
It is a small server with about 5 to 6 regular people and they want a few more friendly players. They use their own mod list with extra monsters plus weapons armor and furniture so the world has more stuff to find and use.
The main vibe is exploring and building a world that feels lived in. People make cozy bases shared towns and paths and they go on random adventures together.
They also use proximity voice chat so you can talk while building or when you run into someone. It is not meant to be sweaty and everyone plays at their own pace with cooperative good vibes.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
