This is a semi vanilla survival server that feels like a calm long term world. The server is still pretty new and the community is trying to build something that lasts a long time.
It is focused on true survival with no game breaking plugins. Players build shops and trade with each other so the economy grows from what people actually do on the server. There are no protected land claims so players are expected to choose peace and respect.
The rules are strict and there is active moderation. Griefing stealing and harassment are not allowed and fair play is enforced for everyone. There is no special treatment so everyone has the same chance to grow.
The server supports both Java and Bedrock so more friends can play together. There is optional proximity voice chat for people who like talking in game and it makes the world feel more real.
There are some small quality of life features like graves that hold your items for a short time after you die plus simple fun commands like sit spin and hat.
The world is planned as long term with no map resets so your builds and shops can actually matter and become part of the server history.
Haven SMP True Community Survival

Ordinary SMP Whitelisted Vanilla Java 1.21.11
Community Build ProjectsGrief deterrent systemlive world mapTheft investigation toolsWhitelist Community Server
I found Ordinary SMP and it is a vanilla survival server for Java 1.21.11. It tries to stay updated so players get the newest stuff.
The community is small and active with people from different places. Players like to build together and work on big shared projects so it feels like a real group world.
It is whitelisted so the server can keep things respectful. They also use Ledger to track activity and help investigate griefing or stealing.
There is a live BlueMap so you can see the world. There is Simple VoiceChat for talking in game plus an AudioPlayer for custom audio.
They have dragon elytra drops. The server also uses a custom resource pack with cosmetics trophies and event rewards with a HermitCraft inspired vibe.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPGrief Free Vanilla SMP With Voice Chat

Hydro SMP is a survival multiplayer server that sticks to a completely vanilla style with a few performance mods and moderator tools. It stays on the latest version so it feels current and smooth.
The big focus is safety and fairness. Griefing is not allowed at all and the staff uses tools that can inspect and roll back player actions. They also run a strict no tolerance policy for cheating.
The community is a huge part of how it runs. There are over 2200 Discord members and the server choices get voted on by the players so everyone gets a say.
It also uses a custom resource pack for cosmetics like hats plus custom signs and banners. Nothing is meant to change gameplay. You can also expect things like a live map plus proximity voice chat and some VanillaTweak datapacks like the dragon dropping elytra and extra slabs trapdoors and stairs.
The server is hosted in Germany and they say it is built for strong performance with a Ryzen 9 7950X and 24GB of RAM. They aim for 20 TPS and monitor performance closely.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPeaMC Classic Survival No Teleport SMP

PeaMC is a semi vanilla SMP that tries to feel like classic Minecraft. It keeps things simple so you just survive travel build and meet people without teleports or land claims.
It is whitelist based so it is harder for trolls to get in. The community is meant to be chill and the owner and mods are active in game and on Discord.
Java and Bedrock can both join and it supports versions from 1.7x to 1.21.11. You can form teams and play together.
PvP is allowed but there are rules to stop griefing and spawn killing. New players get PvP protection for one day unless they turn it off. Maces are banned and destructive PvP like crystals beds anchors TNT and minecart PvP is not allowed.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOneBlock Bosses And Key Loot

I found a OneBlock server called LegionCraft and it is all about building up from your own island and grinding to get stronger.
There are challenging bosses and when you beat them they can drop keys. You can use those keys for rare loot and there are crates with epic gear and rewards.
You can also use chunk hoppers to automate parts of your island. The server says it is not pay to win so it feels more fair if you just want to play and grind.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill PvE SMP With McMMO Progression

PlatonicMC is a cozy survival server that stays PvE only so it feels more relaxed. You can build and explore without worrying about player fights and the community is meant to be friendly.
It is in beta right now so it is still getting started. There is an economy with a server shop plus player shops and a jobs system so you can earn money from stuff like mining farming and fishing.
There is MCMMO skill leveling and graves to help keep your gear safe when you die. You can claim land to protect builds and it is set up to be no griefing.
There is a mining world for resources and a custom world with unique terrain. The world is pre generated to help things run smoother and you can use random teleport in the main world or pay to use it in the mining world. You can also set up to three personal warps.
It supports Java and Bedrock crossplay and has daily and playtime rewards plus vote rewards with keys and loot.
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