I found Crafted Survival and it is a semi vanilla SMP that is all about community and building with an economy that uses diamonds.
It has land claiming with golden shovels so your builds stay safe. Players can run shops and there is a shops GUI so you can browse stores fast.
It supports Java and Bedrock crossplay so more people can join together. There is also a live world map you can look at in a browser and separate resource worlds so the main world does not get wrecked.
The server says it is true survival and mostly PvE. There is no griefing and no keep inventory. They also do ranks and vote rewards plus weekly events with a friendly community.
Crafted Survival Semi Vanilla SMP

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FREE Paper Server Stress Test

I found a free Paper server running on 1.21.11 and it is being tested to see how well the host holds up.
It keeps things pretty simple with only a few plugins. You get Essentials plus mcMMO and MineGuard.
If you want a chill place to hop in and help test performance this one is open for people to join and mess around while it gets tried out.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPParasitus Modern Apocalypse Survival Horror

Parasitus is a Minecraft server with a modern apocalypse vibe. It is built around survival and horror where something beyond human understanding keeps growing and trying to kill everyone.
The server opens March 14 on Saturday at 11am EST. Players are expected to read the rules so everyone knows what is okay and what is not.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPMalgazar SMP Chill No Griefing

Malgazar SMP is a chill survival server for people who want to build without everything getting ruined. The community stays pretty active and you can usually find around 10 players online with about 350 total players so far.
The rules are strict about being fair. No griefing no stealing no scamming no slurs no xray no cheats no duping and no seed maps. PvP is only if both players agree and you also are not allowed to mess with other peoples pets or animals.
It uses some QOL stuff like veinminer and keep inventory is on. Explosions do not destroy blocks. Fishing has extra rare loot like elytra trident and heart of the ocean.
The world border is set to 15k and the nether may increase too. The end resets every month then expands a little after that. There are tier rankings and there is a mod that helps the owner undo grief fast and check who interacted with blocks.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPNexo SMP Crossplay Chill Survival

Nexo SMP is a survival server that is trying to grow a fun community. It feels like a chill place where you can build grind or just hang out with other players.
It supports Java and Bedrock so you can join from PC mobile or console. People can play at their own pace and do their own thing.
The server has active staff and a fair set of rules to keep it enjoyable for everyone. There is also an active Discord with channels for the community.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPReal Vanilla Survival No Plugins Ever

FreakCraft is a survival server that is trying to be truly vanilla. It runs on the normal minecraft server jar with no plugins and no datapacks.
The spawn is simple and there is not a bunch of stuff to read. You are expected to handle your own social problems and just play how you want.
There is no tp and no sethome so travel and choices matter. Technical players and redstone people will fit in if they like the real vanilla quirks and challenges.
It stays on the latest stable vanilla jar and it is self hosted on a purpose built machine.
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