This is a really calm survival server that is made for adults who just want to chill and play Minecraft at a slow pace. The players are mostly in their 20s and 30s and they act really friendly and relaxed. There is no drama and everyone just wants to have a good time and build stuff together.
The world is pretty new and they usually keep a world going for about a year before they reset it. The nether is already open and the group has gone there together and now they are working on a nether highway to connect their bases in an organized way.
The End is not open yet and nobody has gone there so the plan is to do the first End trip together while hanging out in voice chat. The server runs Java 1.21.10 and it also lets Bedrock players join so more people can play together. There are a few optional quality of life plugins but the server still feels close to normal survival.
If you want a slow paced survival world with adults and a welcoming group this server is made for that kind of chill play style.
Chill Adult Crossplay SMP 1.21.10

Player Nations and Consequences SMP

The New Frontier is a modded SMP where players build up settlements and those can turn into nations over time. The world feels like it runs on what people decide to do not on scripted events.
It has a real economy with a currency mod and players can run banks and shops. Deals matter and you can get rich or broke depending on how you play.
Proximity voice chat makes councils and border talks feel intense. War can happen but it is not forced and there are no nukes or magic shortcuts. The server also has vehicles for civilian travel and military power is kept under state control.
Lore exists in the world and it can be found lost or stolen. Admins stay hands off unless someone is cheating or using exploits. The big idea is that history is not reset so your choices stick around.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPNo Rules Survival Do Anything Server

I found a Minecraft server with no rules where you can do whatever you want.
It is whitelisted so you have to get approved first.
The server is hosted for free right now so it is not always on. The owner has to give you access so you can turn it on and off when you want.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPHavenCraft Chill Long Term SMP

HavenCraft is a friendly survival SMP that feels like a long term world where people actually stick around. It has a relaxed and mature vibe and the main focus is playing together and helping each other.
The server has a vanilla style survival feel with Hermitcraft inspired energy. There is a player driven economy and you can get rewards for starting shops. People are also working on building up a welcoming spawn area.
Players are on from EU USA and Asia and there are usually around 10 to 12 people active daily. They are looking for builders redstone players and anyone who loves long term survival.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRattata SMP Pure Vanilla Survival

Rattata SMP is a mature 16+ survival server that tries to stay as close to vanilla as possible. It runs on Paper and it supports both Java and Bedrock players.
The rules are simple and it is mostly just do not grief and use common sense. It is the kind of place where you can play with others and slowly build a real community.
There is no teleporting and there are no changed loot tables or custom world generation. The server is on hard difficulty and it uses 33 percent player sleep. It is whitelist only and there is a live map.
Simple voice mod is optional and CoreProtect is available with /co i. The server launched on Dec 26th.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPVanilla Beta 1.7.3 SMP With Friends
beta era worldbuilding together servercasual longterm worldCommunity Building Focuswhitelist required access
BetaBuddies is a small vanilla Survival Multiplayer server running on Minecraft Beta 1.7.3. It is all about that classic survival feel and the charm of old Minecraft.
People play here to build together and just have fun in a simple world. The community is trying to grow so it feels active and friendly.
You have to request a whitelist to join. The rules are pretty clear no hate speech no griefing no stealing and no cheating. Also keep stuff non offensive and be kind because bullying is not allowed.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
