I found this server that is made just for adults. It is called BadWolfMC and it is only for players who are 18 or older. They actually check your age so it really is a real adult community.
The server feels super chill and relaxed. It is meant to be drama free and welcoming. People seem to come from a lot of different places and backgrounds and the whole vibe is just friendly and calm.
The gameplay is semi vanilla. That means it still feels like normal Minecraft but with a few plugins that make things more fun without changing everything. The server runs on really good hardware so it feels smooth when you play.
You can join from Java or Bedrock and still play together. So it works on computer console and phone which is pretty cool.
There are a bunch of different game modes. They have survival and hardcore and skyblock. There is also acid island one block prison creative and minigames. They also run events a lot like recurring and seasonal stuff and even weekly Bed Wars tournaments and watch parties.
The whole idea is that this is a place for adults to relax have fun and be creative without chaos or kids screaming in chat. It is like an adult Minecraft server paradise if that is what you are looking for.
Witcher Style Lore Survival Server

This server feels like it is trying to be a Witcher style adventure but in Minecraft. The owner spent about 2.5 months making lore and there is an ongoing book with 7 chapters that are around 2000 words each.
It is the owners first server and it starts on 11 or 12 Feb. The server has both pvp and non pvp roles and both matter. Builders seem a little more important but fighters can build too.
Community is a big deal here and players are expected to interact. Your choices can change the world lore in real ways and it is not just a tiny line of text. There are NPCs too and if you ignore the lore you can accidentally make one angry.
The age limit is 15 plus and the rules and etiquette are taken seriously. The server uses minimal plugins and leans more on hard work and custom ideas. You can play casual or you can grind and try to beat the nether dungeon.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPVANILLA ANARCHY ON CLASSIC 1.3.2

This server is a vanilla anarchy place running on Minecraft 1.3.2. It uses only official jar files so it is meant to feel like the real old game.
There are no rules and nothing is patched so you deal with whatever happens. Players can vote on updates and it can change every week.
The goal is to go through every official server version including snapshots and the april fools stuff so it feels like a long Minecraft time trip.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPTwo Team Regions War SMP

RegionsSMP is a seasonal survival server that is still in alpha. It is a work in progress and stuff is being tweaked so it is not the final product.
Players get split into two teams and you pick a side. Then both teams fight over regions across the map over about a month. When you claim a region it gets protected from the other team unless they own a region right next to it. That makes a lot of back and forth fights and a big warzone feeling.
The server owner treats it like a passion project and wants to improve each season. It is war and PvP centric but they also want room for different play styles. Custom builds can be carried into new wars as protected builds and new features and changes are expected often.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPEverdawn Saga Season 0 Worldbuilding RPG

Everdawn Saga is a Java server on 1.21.10 that is being built up for Season 0. This is the early start where players can help shape the world while it is still coming together.
It has different chat ranges like global local shout and whisper so talking feels more real. It also has a D and D style dice roller plus a stats sheet so you can play with characters.
The vibe is medieval and there is a pantheon for the lore. The staff is active and there are lore masters who help you build your character. You need an interview to join and then you can start getting set up.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFrom Scratch Community Built Minecraft Server

I found a Minecraft server that is being built from scratch by the developer. The main vibe is that it is not locked to one mode. The community helps decide what gets added over time.
The server is putting a team together before anything goes public. Builders are wanted to help shape the world and make it feel alive. They also get lots of creative freedom and access to a huge custom head collection.
They also want staff to brainstorm features and help wherever they can. There is a custom suggestion system and ideas can get added if the community votes for them. Management and support roles are open too for people who can keep things organized and positive.
It feels like a server where the goal is making friends while building something new together.
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